Dating....It might have a point....

This is a random thought, but they often come to me that way. I figured I may as well jot this down before I lose it!

Ever wondered how you know when you are with 'the one?' Ever look at the dating game and just wanted to cry? Ever hated meeting new possibilities that lack just that: possibility? Oh boy, I know I have!

I often wondered why people went out and dated. Looking back, I often think: "How did that happen?" or "Why did I even GO there?" I decided that dating allows people to discover themselves and to reestablish standards. At least looking in my relationship history, all of the men I have seriously dated have been an improvement on the one that preceded him.

I learn what is important to me and what things I really don't care about. I rediscover boundaries on both a personal and a social level. And while I don't do the whole list thing, I feel like I learn more about what I am looking for in a partner. I think, or at least I hope, that the end result would be that I find someone who embodies all of the built up characteristics plus a little something of his own. I believe there will come a point when I don't think there is any more a girl could ask for...that's when you know.

What makes this union work is when he knows too. What makes it last is the phenomenon that neither person lose their faith in that knowledge that this is the one, while the other person has lost theirs. Essentially, as long as two people don't fall out of love with each other at the same time, there is hope for their relationship...It just might work...as long as you both know.

Whirlwind...Is that really the date?

It is amazing how quickly time seems to fly when you have a deadline. It is already nearing the end of June and I am on my way to Korea in just about a month. I am feeling a bit nervous about being able to finish everything before I go, but I am calm and comfortable about my decision to go.

There were several issues that arose during my decision making time that pushed me toward a decision not to go. But while I rested my mind and really gave thought to each concern, I was able to break down the pros and cons of each. They were overriden by the possibilities and benefits of going to Korea.

I don't speak Korean and I really don't have much experience with TESOL classroom instruction. But I know I'll get it done. I mean, I won't say this project will be easy. I know this will undoubtedly be a major challenge for me. But I am ready. So bring it on.